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Reading some of the blog entries of late has been a less than joyful experience and the descent into emotive argument rather than intelligent debate is, to me at least, more prevalent now than it has been before on this site. Which is a shame. This still is my favourite place on the internet and I care about it and its existence.

One thing has bothered me more than any other on the debates that have been had here recently. It is the use of up arrows to show your support for one point of view. In itself, fairly innocuous but it seems to me its as much having a pop at the person with the alternate view as it is supporting a view.

As someone who liked the idea of the up arrows as a way of expressing pleasure at a piece of writing, a witty retort or a good link, I have rather changed my view of late. I now think it would be a good idea to get rid of them. It will stop the "ganging up" on people and the unhelpful sight of people 'upping' someone for having a go at someone else. It's all a bit playground really and does little to progress anything accept the levels of anger.

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Amen

I said the same a while back. Not everyone uses them with the motives you mention, but it does happen and it is on the increase.

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Spartacus Mills | 1 August 2011 - 3:51pm

Hear, hear

I quite agree with you there. Have an .. doh!

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Slotbadger | 1 August 2011 - 6:07pm

Ironically

The pieces that tend to prompt the most emotive arguments are the posts about the site itself, much like this one. My heart sinks every time such a post is made.

I'm fairly ambivalent about the arrows, but I am considering introducing a Fight Club-style "the first rule of Fight Club is that we don't talk about Fight Club" rule.

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Fraser Lewry | 1 August 2011 - 3:53pm

Point taken

and apologies for sinking your heart. It was posted with the best of intentions.

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Leedsboy | 1 August 2011 - 4:13pm

But Fraser...

if we can't talk about the Blog itself or have suggestions, comments and even the odd complaint, how will it evolve?

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Retro Man | 1 August 2011 - 4:26pm

Naturally,

and over time.

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Fraser Lewry | 1 August 2011 - 4:29pm

I thought you were advocating a real

Fight Club for a minute...Might solve a few problems come to think of it! Sort of like a Harry Hill comedic fight of course I'm not advocating violence..."Which is better, Morrissey or Murdoch? There's only one way to find out...!"

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Retro Man | 1 August 2011 - 4:42pm

Which is better

Harry Enfield or Harry Hill...?

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Red Umpire | 1 August 2011 - 4:43pm

Haha...

damn it, did you see that? I thought I edited it quickly enough!

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Retro Man | 1 August 2011 - 4:45pm

Sorry!

Would a :-) be appropriate here...?

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Red Umpire | 1 August 2011 - 4:47pm

You asking for a box round the ears...?

I only advocated the use of the ;-) I wouldn't touch a :-) if my life depended on it!

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Retro Man | 1 August 2011 - 4:50pm

Have an up

Because I liked your commment, not because I was ganging up on myself...

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Red Umpire | 1 August 2011 - 4:52pm

Yes, yes, yes...

....please do this (he said, refusing to use the arrows)

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ainsley009 | 1 August 2011 - 8:04pm

If not here, then where?

I have made one suggestion of an improvement to the Word blog by DM/email to you and 'The Word'. That was earlier this year - no reply.

For the record, it was this:

Can we introduce a discussion area under the 'Latest' tab so that comments about specific articles in the current issue of the mag could be discussed. I find that these are lost in the main 'Blog' section as people read the articles & the magazine at different points through the month.

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kb | 8 August 2011 - 2:40pm

That's something else altogether

I'm talking about posts that discuss the site itself, not posts that discuss articles in the magazine. And apologies if I didn't respond to an earlier contact - there's nothing from you in my inbox, so it may have gone astray somewhere.

The structure of the latest page isn't issue-specific, so running comments under there won't work, but there may be other ways of doing it. I'll think about it.

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Fraser Lewry | 8 August 2011 - 2:53pm

Thanks

I was envisaging the same structure as the 'Nights In' or 'Reads' where I can post 'Astral Weeks' as a heading and then make a comment about the article and maybe create a discussion. I know I can do this on the blog section but it would just get buried in all the other apropos nothing in particular stuff.

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kb | 8 August 2011 - 4:34pm

This blog.

Is comin' like a ghost blog.

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Spartacus Mills | 1 August 2011 - 3:59pm

Amen, Fraser

(someone will castigate me for sucking up, now - bollocks to you in advance!). I love this site but I just get fed up wading through 'if you don't like it, chuff off somewhere else' or 'its not as good a site as it used to be,' or 'I was here first, now naff orff.' I know that all blog sites go through these phases but really, people. Enough already!

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niallb | 1 August 2011 - 3:59pm

I wouln't lose sleep over it

Speaking to a few Worders on board the HMS Massive the Sunday before last, I don't think it can be compared to an Arab Spring; just a few discontents kicking their heels until their mothers call them in for tea. It probably needs Hepworth to call order by way of an August Randomiser.

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John Medd | 1 August 2011 - 3:59pm

What exactly...

Is the point of the up arrow? Are they useful in determining what goes in the mag?

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Doug B | 1 August 2011 - 4:00pm

It's in the FAQ

The arrows are a convenient shorthand for "I like this". Click the arrow if you like a post, or if you think a comment adds significantly to the debate that follows. The number reflects the number of fellow readers who have done so.

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Fraser Lewry | 1 August 2011 - 4:02pm

Sorry Fraser..

yes I know that bit, but does it help to gauge readership likes and dislikes? Otherwise has it outlived it's usefulness?

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Doug B | 1 August 2011 - 4:24pm

We've never used it for that

Because it's never really represented that. You can dislike a band but still "up" a post promoting them if it's articulate, or funny, or makes you think.

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Fraser Lewry | 1 August 2011 - 4:34pm

Down with the arrows...!

I've never been a fan of the up or down arrows and have said so before. For a Magazine/Blog that prides itself on the quality of writing and debate I always found them a little bit out of place and unecessary.

However, you are right this place has started to get a bit more nasty recently and I would like to ask Fraser if he could, at the next Word Magazine AGM, to consider these suggestions for new "Posting Guidelines".

1. Learn to Stop Worrying and Love the ;-)
I know there is an unwritten rule/bit of snobbery on here about the use of smileys, but my god, surely a well placed ;-) to denote irony or humour might solve a whole lot of arguing and misunderstanding.
It would also stop the scenario where a someone wants to say "f~~k it I really want to put a ;-) here but I'll be laughed at..." so they write something like *INSERT SMILEY HERE* - which is surely far worse than putting the damn symbol there in the first place.

2. Anybody who moans about Cliques should be forced to attend their next local Word Massive drink-up/gathering.
It is natural for adults to meet up in the real world, have a few drinks and talk bollocks about music and life in general. It is natural for some of those adults to make acquaintences and friends from those meetings. It is also natural that some of the correspondence on here might reflect that - but don't worry, nobody's talking or gossiping about YOU!

3. Do unto others...
If you want to be aggressive and abusive sitting at your keyboard in your pyjamas - then please kindly have the guts to come along to a Word Massive drink-up/gathering to debate the grievance.

Ooops, sorry nearly forgot...

;-)

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Retro Man | 1 August 2011 - 4:06pm

Cliques

That topic is the single biggest reason I've thought about leaving the blog.

I couldn't believe what I was reading: that people can really be that petty, blinkered, short-sighted and immature about how and why friendships form.

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Ahh_Bisto | 1 August 2011 - 4:11pm

But not in your pyjamas

unless of course you are Cameron Diaz

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Steve Turner | 1 August 2011 - 9:09pm

I'm close to leaving

the Word blog.

I enjoy the meet-ups and the magazine and neither of those are in any doubt as far as my carrying on with them but this blog used to be a place to get away from the crap out there. Instead in recent weeks it's become a place to be reminded about the crap out there. Threads about contentious issues used to be conducted civilly and, as importantly, interestingly. Now they're an excuse to play ideology trump cards: "my view is better than your view".

There have always been threads about contentious issues but the blog seems to have lost the ability to discuss those issues maturely. You could easily spot a an argumentative and emotive thread because they stood out like a sore thumb, now they seem to be part and parcel of the general content on here. Even threads you assume are fairly innocuous can suddenly flare up

I start reading a thread and it's a case of wondering how soon the bitching and finger-pointing will start. It's particularly depressing when the first post in response to an OP is openly negative, that seems to be happening more often.

I think the idea of getting rid of the up arrows is a good one. They used to be used for positive reasons but now they look increasingly like one side of entrenched views trying to announce that "the ayes have it" over the opposition.

If you think a post or OP is good I'd rather read one positive comment than see 10 up arrows. My concern is that the up arrow is now the tool of a lazy troll whose agenda is simply to piss someone else off.

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Ahh_Bisto | 1 August 2011 - 4:03pm

Damn! Nearly found myself giving you an "Up"

arrow there! Good post anyway.

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Retro Man | 1 August 2011 - 4:15pm

"Ganging up"

How can you or anyone else say with even the slightest degree of certainty when this is happening? If I "up" person A who is arguing against a point I disagree with made by person B, am I ganging up on person B? Does it depend on whether others have previously upped Person A? Does it depend on how "inflammatory" person B's post is?

I've upped Fraser's post, because I couldn't agree with it more, especially "my heart sinks every time such a post is made." And yes, I know I've contributed to the "problem" by responding to this post. Still, if there were never again a post along the lines of "you know what I hate about this site...?" I wouldn't be sorry, and I doubt I'm alone in that.

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Rosbif | 1 August 2011 - 4:06pm

With you all the way

on that Rosbif but neither of those up arrows are mine. I think we might possibly be worrying about nothing only because we don't know who the up arrows have come from. For example if someone posted on her 'that Steve Turner is a bit of knob' and it gets 45 up arrows it's no point me getting upset because I don't know who posted them.Just a thought.

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Steve Turner | 1 August 2011 - 9:13pm

Forum Fatigue

it happens.

I've had a 'sort of' sabbatical because of it but, I'd like to extend a Laurel & Hardy handshake to Adrian.

you know who you are man :D

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James Blast | 1 August 2011 - 4:12pm

Forum fatigue

Familiarity breads contempt. Regulars to any web community soon get to know who they like and dislike, and problems can often stem from that. Instead of seeing a mildly disagreeable viewpiont, you think 'Grr, him again' and respond aggressively.

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Spartacus Mills | 1 August 2011 - 4:13pm

Up arrows

It seems that the most annoying aspect of the up arrows is that people can "gang up" on another anonymously. Perhaps, if there was a way of showing who had given an up arrow it might not be so much of a problem, as people are far less likely to do something like that if they can be held to account for it. But maybe that's not possible. I don't know. I don't really know how these blog things work.

Ultimately, I'm not too bothered with them.

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styrofoam plates | 1 August 2011 - 4:27pm

Are we rather looking at the past

through rose-tinted spectacles? I seem to recall a few outbreaks of bad manners, rudeness and plain ignorance in the past.

The posts that seem to me to cause most problems are the ones where politics comes into play, especially when certain posters can't resist snarky comments about anyone who holds an opposite view.

Ultimately, though, this site is what we make of it. You don't have to get dragged into a slanging match or make sarky comments. Sometimes, dignified silence or a cold shoulder is by far the best option.

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Mark JF | 1 August 2011 - 4:28pm

Frequency

I think that is the issue. There have always been fall-out and blow-out but they were few and far between. They seem to be part of the furniture these days.

Perhaps this is all a natural evolution of a blog and perhaps in that respect I am a dinosaur whose time has come.

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Ahh_Bisto | 1 August 2011 - 4:39pm

Just want you to know in case you missed it

Before this thread goes to 310 disputes My Morning Jacket are on the next thread in a 'Musical' performance that I think may be worth your attention! Of course you may consider it not to be! And that is your right! Don't need an up arrow either! Peace Love etc!

PS I agree with you Leedsboy, Fraser and Ahh_Bisto!

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Springer Bell | 1 August 2011 - 4:39pm

'Arrers

All I'll say about the Ups is that I posted about my late Dad, nearly a year ago. Twang posted a nice response which I thanked him for and went on my hols. I came back a week later to 25 'Ups'. Brought a huge smile to my face and made me glow inside. Surely that can't be a bad thing?

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niallb | 1 August 2011 - 4:42pm

Have another Up

I remember it!

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Springer Bell | 1 August 2011 - 4:45pm

From one opposed to the arrows...

that's the nicest reason I've heard so far to keep them!

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Retro Man | 1 August 2011 - 4:47pm

I agree

and it has reminded me of why I liked them in the first place.

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Leedsboy | 1 August 2011 - 4:54pm

Arrows don't bother me...

...I like the content and, if a point is well made, I use the up arrow. But I'm not a-quiver if no-one uses it for my posts. It's no feather in my cap. I bow to the inevitable. I have no pull. Although I'm something of a target market, I don't listen to 'The Archers'. Blogging adds another string to my bow, but in the scheme of things, the arrows don't bother me. I believe George Armstrong Custer had a similar point of view and look what that did for his reputation. There was no-one left to Sioux. I'm now going for a nice lie down.

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Baskerville Old Face | 1 August 2011 - 5:01pm

Toxophilotastic!

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Lenny Law | 1 August 2011 - 5:43pm

you all make interesting points

for which you deserve recognition. Let's not forget there are people out there who perhaps don't feel confident posting, but who can happily endorse a view by giving an up arrow. If certain elements misuse the device, that shouldn't mean we do away with it.

Personally, I can see when a thread is getting out of hand and I avoid it henceforth. The snarky posts don't define the blog for me. I still maintain it is possible to have robust and respectful discussion here.

I suppose it's a question of finding the right place for a forum like this in your life. If it's taking up hours in your day, that's probably not a good thing. If you find yourself drifting away from it, then maybe you have found a bit more balance in your life.

But it would be a shame if those who helped make the blog what it is were so discouraged they left it completely. The only way to retain those parts you treasure is to stand your ground.

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Nick Duvet | 1 August 2011 - 5:01pm

Balance is key..

I like the up arrows, an important function of them is surely to lessen the amount of "i agree with this" "what he said" posts (nothing wrong with stating that tho obviously) - it's a very simple way of saying "yeh, i get it". and it's nice to get them, especially when you're not expecting it or when you don't know exactly why you've got them. And not getting any means...absolutley nothing....Remember when there were down arrows, oh that was a barrel of fun wasn't it.
I like smiley faces too and i don't apologise for them, sarcasm is not good on the internet.
I might get my coat as well, is it cold out?

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Kay Lester | 1 August 2011 - 5:17pm

uh,

can i completely change my mind. On reflection the arrows do create a strange 2nd dimension to the blog,

I mean, there's the blog and what people say on it and then there's this added layer of activity with the arrows, shadowing everything and I'm questioning whether it's necessary.

I have been visiting other blogs and enjoying that when something is stated, it's done and finished and if anyone is really pushed they will refer to it in their own post, this can produce a more balanced netural overall thread, shouldn't it just be basically assumed that a lot of us are going to empathise/agree with/dig what is stated in this blog.

I haven't been too active on the posting lately, just can't be doing with any conflict, there is a bit of an arguemntative vibe but i've nothing specific to point to and certainly have never picked anyone out, if I find i'm upping someone to get at someone else I back off and do a reality check..turn other cheek..return to your real life..do not fight on the internet with people who have similar interests whom you have never met
yeh, if it's up for discussion i'd vote to get rid.

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Kay Lester | 1 August 2011 - 8:15pm

Another vote for the removal of the pointy wotsits.

I just don't see the need. If one wants to agree or disagree, or simply register ones pleasure why not just type a short sentence saying so. As for the general vibe around these here parts lately, well it has been a little snarky here & there, that's why I've not posted a great deal for a while. I'm a sensitive soul!

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Pencilsqueezer | 1 August 2011 - 6:04pm

I too have posted less

of late, though that's partly through circumstance. I tend to avoid the more contentious snarky places, though I if I do post there I do try to maintain some civility - life's too short not to, frankly.

Arrows? Largely redundant but sometimes a nice shorthand. I don't think I'd miss them if they were gone, though.

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illuminatus | 1 August 2011 - 6:26pm

Jump over to Reddit for an evening

You'll soon remember all the big and little things you loved about this blog.

FTR: I like the fact that the arrows only go one way here.

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James EB | 1 August 2011 - 6:50pm

To repeat myself, again.

There are other 'nice' forums on the internets, this place is only special because you've found it and it's not an abusive place like others you've visited. This isn't an exclusive club where only loveliness rules, there's many others out there.

I'd still like to have a smiley option, but then I'm daft ;)

Release the Bats....

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James Blast | 1 August 2011 - 8:54pm

Upped

Danged right. I'm a regular visitor to several other really nice forums and some really horrible ones too. You should see what happens when obsessive Genesis fans get angsty...

And I think we need more of these: \m/ SATAN \m/

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James EB | 1 August 2011 - 9:14pm

There ain't nothing worse...

than a Phil Collins fan throwing a hissy fit.

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Doug B | 2 August 2011 - 1:45pm

I still think this place is ace.

There've been some great threads on here recently.

There was the one asking which digital camera to buy.

Then there was the one by that soft sod getting all emotional about a Stevie Wonder song.

The one about someone's gnocchi tea last week.

And there was that one about who we'd like to be famous and rich in our alternative universe.

And that's all in the last week or so!

That's the sort of quality this place needs more of.

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Paul Waring | 1 August 2011 - 6:55pm

Sorry

but that soft sod on the Stevie Wonder thread was frankly embarrassing.

If I saw that bloke on or around 23rd September I'd certainly tell him to sort himself out and man up.

Honestly.

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Ahh_Bisto | 1 August 2011 - 7:43pm

I know.

You'd never get a bluff Northern lad like me getting so emotional over a bloody song.

Or a woman.

He needs to have a long, hard word with himself.

Or lay off the whiskey, one or the other. Or both.

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Paul Waring | 1 August 2011 - 8:00pm

FWIW

I have no problem with anything anyone posts on here..
If I like it, I read it.. If I REALLY like it- whether or not I agree with it- I give it an up.
If I strongly disagree with it, I will try to give a relevant response.
I have only ever been angry once in 3 years of being a member here, but hey, who am I to be the arbritator of whats right and what's wrong?
Is this not the way it should be? A democracy of sorts?
There are a good few Massive Members who post quality more regularly than most, are they the mysterious clique?
Who cares?
Anyroads, my point is this: There are some favourite Posters of mine whose contributions I never miss, the favourites of mine, regardless of content.
Lenny Law, Twangathon, Helena Hardcart, James Blast, Glenbervie, The Californian, Rosbif, Bob to name but a few.
Do not go Ahh Bisto, you are one of my favourites also.

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geacher53 | 1 August 2011 - 7:43pm

At the risk of repeating myself...

We are collectively responsible for the content of this site.

If you don't like the tone of the blog then write something that changes it. This site can be good but it requires everybody who comes here to expend a little effort in order to make it so.

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backwards7 | 1 August 2011 - 8:10pm

I Like The Arrows

(awaits some 'up' arrows for above statement...)

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kidpresentable | 1 August 2011 - 8:23pm

Someone had to...

;-p

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Happy Castle | 1 August 2011 - 8:37pm

I like it.

Have an up arrow!

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kidpresentable | 1 August 2011 - 8:41pm

wern't

Alan and Merrill in the Osmonds?

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James Blast | 1 August 2011 - 9:10pm

Shoot that poison arrow

Really, how can they possibly matter that much? It's the things people feel called upon to say to each other (and so quickly!) that can get scary.

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LastRoseofSummer | 1 August 2011 - 8:57pm

Time for Leapy Lee

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Andy Mackenzie | 1 August 2011 - 9:14pm

for fucks sake people

Again, really?

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Dave Amitri | 1 August 2011 - 10:28pm

Without you there's no point to . . .

This blog has nothing tricky about it
This blog ain't black or white and as far as I know
Don't infringe on anyone's copyright, so . . .

This blog we'll let be
This blog is in E
This blog is for you and . . .

This blog has nothing Bright about it
This blog ain't bad or good and come ever what may
My expert tells me it's okay

As this blog came to me
Quite unknowingly
This blog could be you could be . . .

This blog ain't trying to win gold medals
This blog ain't hip or square
Well done or rare
May end up one more weight to bear

But this blog could well be
A reason to see - that
Without you there's no point to . . . this blog

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Happy Castle | 1 August 2011 - 10:40pm

Up, up and away

It's all very well calling for the abolition of the up arrows, but will no one spare a thought for the magazine staff members? They routinely receive double figure up arrows for even the most mundane posts, so this proposed move will hit them harder than the rest of us.

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mojoworking | 2 August 2011 - 12:09am

I appreciate that is meant in a certain amount of jest

but these accusations of 'toadying' abound and are becoming very tedious. I think that slights the majority of people on this blog. Do you honestly think we all sit there gleefully applauding everything a Word Writer or contributor posts on here regardless?

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Dr Volume | 2 August 2011 - 1:48am

Yes, I was jesting, but

...equally, some posters do exactly that. The evidence is there for all to see.

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mojoworking | 2 August 2011 - 6:22am

No disrespect...

But why on earth would that bother you? You're not a four-year-old.

I don't care about the arrows one way or the other, but if people are getting upset because staff members are getting more "ups" than others, perhaps it is time the arrows disappeared altogether. Seriously, I'd have hoped we were beyond that. We're grown-ups.

And be honest: in the absence of a list confirming the provider of each individual "up", there's no evidence that "some posters do exactly that" at all. None whatsoever. You can see who's getting votes, but not who's voting. But given that one of the reasons people buy The Word is - I assume - because David Hepworth writes for it, it's hardly surprising if his contributions here are similarly appreciated.

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Bela Legosis Dad | 2 August 2011 - 8:04am

Yes disrespect...

There's no need for such an unpleasant and aggressive response. I await your apology.

Meanwhile, you're making a few wild assumptions there.

I never said it's possible to tell who's doing the "ups", only that there is evidence that it's happening.

It also doesn't bother me at all. As I said, the comment was made in jest.

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mojoworking | 2 August 2011 - 8:33am

Apologies

It wasn't my intention to be either aggressive or unpleasant, I was just absolutely flabbergasted that this might be an issue.

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Bela Legosis Dad | 2 August 2011 - 8:54am

Accepted

It's really not an issue with me, but for better or worse it is an observable and sometimes amusing phenomenon. Surely we can comment on such things?

Sorry if my flippant post flabbered your gast.

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mojoworking | 2 August 2011 - 8:59am

Staff

Good writing will always get rewarded, and I don't think it's too Smithers-esque of me to state that the Word journos are good writers. Quality writing from non-staffers (step forward Pax Romana, backwards7, Capt. U-Pants...etc) is always similarly acclaimed.

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Spartacus Mills | 2 August 2011 - 8:40am

Sorry

Sorry, but quite often I do think that WRT the magazine staff, that does happen a lot.

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jackthebiscuit | 2 August 2011 - 8:09am

Yes but

I suspect a lot of that is more casual readers who may well home in on names they recognise, rather than a sycophantic ripple of applause from the Massive for every staffer who posts.
I think it's also an expression of the fact that people like the interaction between the writers and the bloggers, and the fact that despite the fact these people have a magazine to publish and may be jetting off to a press junket with Bananarama most days they're happy to come on here and duke it out with us riff raff. I know I do.

You'd also think that given these people have years of rock writing behind them they would be writing stuff that gets a lot of votes.

That's not to say there aren't a lot of great writers among the great unwashed of the Massive, rarely a day goes by why I don't give an up arrow, usually several (once I've scoured the blog for anything written by David H so I can ' up' that first of course ;)

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Dr Volume | 2 August 2011 - 10:39am

Carry On Up The Word

The Khasi of Islington; "May the readership of The Blog up arrow your every comment!"
Sir Sidney Ruff-Ellen; "...and up yours".

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skirky | 2 August 2011 - 11:21am

Should we not look within first?

It strikes me that if I like a post, I "up" it.

Why? Well:
1. Funny
2. Makes a point I agree with
3. Makes a point I disagree with, but is very well written. There are folks who post here, and it's stuff I don't agree with, but by God it's well written.

I tend to judge each post on how I read it, and pay no attention to the number of arrows it gets. It's about how it resonates with me, and not what others think of it. I'm in no position to judge if it's 1, 2, or 3 that prompted the arrow. I think if I did make that judgement, I'd be projecting my own view of it.

Leave them. Remove them. But I do get a kick when one of my posts gets "upped". Someone, somewhere, for some reason, liked what I wrote enough to indicate their approval. Is that such a bad thing?

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sitheref2409 | 2 August 2011 - 3:06am

I frequently award myself Ups for my own posts.

I see it as a harmless form of self-congratulation. Let's face it, no other fucker ever gives me one, so let's share the (self)love here, eh?

Fnarr, fnarr.

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itfc1959 | 2 August 2011 - 3:35am

If only

that were possible ;-)

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mojoworking | 2 August 2011 - 3:39am

I have heard it rumoured...

... that Bob and My American Mate are one and the same.

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Formbyman | 2 August 2011 - 12:17pm

In that case would you be 'Up Yourself'

fnar, fnar.

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Badlands | 2 August 2011 - 3:57pm
mojoworking | 2 August 2011 - 10:54pm

I occassionally

visit other blogs but find most of them too nuts for my taste but one feature I do like that I've seen elsewhere is the ability to see who has "liked", "recommended" or, in Word parlance, "upped" a comment. I'm all for transparency and will change my user name to my real name the next time there is a user name amnesty. Perhaps revealing who has upped a comment might help?

Not sure what it would help with though, now I come to think of it.

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ceepee | 2 August 2011 - 9:30am

I don't use the up arrows

to be honest, if there is a post or comment that has strongly stirred up a reaction whether it positive or negative I'll often post a comment, seems fair enough to me.
Having said that I have to say I've found myself posting less often (not that I did much anyway), and visiting the site not as much as I used to, this is more than likely me being jaded than anything else.
Still think its a pretty friendly place to go though compared to others, posted on mojos message board many years ago, after introducing myself I posted my first rather innocuous entry, only to be met with ridicule and bile, never went there again. My experience on the word site couldn't be more different.
Like life, there are things I like and stuff I don't, choosing to turn a blind eye to the annoying posts seems to work for me.

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Mint | 2 August 2011 - 10:51am

"Other people do it, I don't"

A couple of practices have been mentioned so far in this thread, "ganging up" and "toadying to Word writers", with the underlying message (to me at least) basically reading as follows:

"Other people do this, not me of course. And no, I can't prove it, but I can assure you it's happening all the time. No, I'm not saying who does it, just people who aren't me."

Sheesh!

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Rosbif | 2 August 2011 - 11:06am

I'll sometimes give someone a supportive 'up'

if I agree with their viewpoint, but don't necessarily want to wade into the debate. If a view is expressed that chimes with mine, I'll support it with an arrow - it doesn't have to be a particularly well expressed view, but, generally speaking, people express themselves well here.

I will also 'up' in support of another person if I think someone else is being particularly objectionable towards them. Is that 'ganging-up'? I'm not sure it is - it's more an expression of solidarity. I have expressed my support for all kinds of people in that way - regulars and less frequent visitors.

I appreciate getting an arrow here or there, but I don't lose sleep over it.

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Adman | 2 August 2011 - 12:20pm

Kebab

I wasn't aware of the arrows until now. They're rather innocouous in my opinion. Far worse are the responses "nahhh"' and "meh", especially when someone has written a long thought-out piece. Overall, I like what people write here, and I ignore the quips and sharp retorts.

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theperfumery | 2 August 2011 - 12:29pm

so it goes

I have been coming here sporadically for a few years and it still seems a generally pleasant environment to me. The recent John Martyn thread got rather heated, but people still resolved it quite pleasantly, I thought. I've never really taken notice of the arrows until this recent flare up and I could probably live without them.

Funnily enough, the most reliably rotten forum page I have seen is that of the august Times Higher Education Supplement; a viper's nests of trolling, sarcasm and outright abuse. Truly awful.

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pessoa | 2 August 2011 - 2:03pm

Oh dear

Let's hope the September edition is a little more civil.

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Spartacus Mills | 2 August 2011 - 2:16pm

I always thought

April was the cruellest month, meself ...

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SpaceBoy | 2 August 2011 - 4:06pm

With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility

Harry Nilsson Me and my Arrow

Uncle Ben/Stan Lee are so damn relevant. Call me naive, but I always see the arrows as the aforementioned shorthand for "I like this". Sometimes a post strikes me as so well-expressed I have nothing further to add than agreement, or when time-strapped, offer an opportunity for an approving nod.

Difference of opinion fuels (and occasionally derails) this blog, but I read little malice in the click of an arrow. Nor would I see an absence of arrows as a condemnation. That, and I like Harry Nilsson, and recent posts debating his merits are a case in point: an OP is an invitation for argument, persuasion, and the like - and that's why I return, read, and enjoy.

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SoundMind | 2 August 2011 - 3:13pm

I've missed all this 'ganging up'

so I must be either :-
a) Hopelessly naive
b) Completely unobservant.
c) not part of the right clique (whatever that is - if it exists)

Can I play with the big boys now?

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Badlands | 2 August 2011 - 3:59pm

Anyone fancy

a soapy tit wank?

Sorry, I'm off the beer.

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Ahh_Bisto | 2 August 2011 - 11:05pm

Er.. *looks around*

No-one else seems to want to take up the offer..

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Lenny Law | 2 August 2011 - 11:38pm

Arrows?!?

until I read this I wasn't aware of their purpose, now Im gutted I don't get any! seriously though this is the only blog I come to and have been doing so for a relatively short time. I have been a little surprised about the occasional pettiness shown when people start to argue but I guess thats the joy of texts / the internet in that sometimes things come across wrong and also people fall out in the real world too. I recognise a few names now but tend to choose what to read /comment upon based on topic rather than who has written it. To sum up I enjoy coming here and reading what you all have to say, i may not always agree nor comment but lets just chill out and enjoy each others company.

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daddyclark | 4 August 2011 - 1:40pm
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