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Rock stars you're genuinely fond of

The recent thread about Live Aid prompted me to watch Queen's performance again - Freddie Mercury's toothy campery had me grinning like an idiot. Pointing his rump at the crowd, doing obscene things with his tongue, prancing around with his cut-off mike stand - this is the kind of behaviour I want from my rock stars. I feel real affection for him as a performer.
Same goes for Robert Smith of The Cure. I listened to Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me last night and was struck by the wonderful way he writes about being in love. He conveys the giddy, silly joyousness of it so brilliantly and this makes me really warm to him as a person. Plus of course he has silly hair and badly-applied lipstick which is good too.
How about you?
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I really like...
...Charles Thompson, AKA Black Francis, AKA Frank Black. He seems like a lovely chap, and I like his wilful refusal to do much more than stand there and holler when he's on stage. Of course, he's unlikely to start doing cartwheels in any case being, as he is, heroically large, but there is an admirable sort of "I'm just going to shout for ninety minutes and then go home" air about him which I really like. He's there to do his job, which he's very good at.
With you all the way on Bob, Patrick. He copped a reasonable amount of flak from people over the whole Lol Tolhurst debacle, but Lol always struck me as a real pain in the arse, so as far as I'm concerned no blame accrues to Mr. Smith.
And finally, the Nicest Man In Rock (And Best Ever Drummer)™, I give you Mr. David Grohl. I just really like him. I remember there being an episode of TOTP a few years back in which Coldplay were inexplicably getting an award for something, and Dave Grohl came on after they'd finished playing, Michael Aspel-like, to surprise them with it. They were clearly starstruck and speechless, and DG camped it up hilariously, saying "YES! You will bow before me! I was in Nirvana, you know!" Add to this all his deeply endearing goofing-off during Nirvana's "Live! Tonight! Sold Out!" video, and he's clearly just lovely.
Dave Grohl
great guy..funny. laid back..oh and crap music
The Cure
...toured Australia in 1980 - only Uni music fans knew who they were at that very early stage in their career. I worked for radical radio station 4ZZZ in Brisbane as a volunteer announcer on the weekend graveyard shift and happened to be in the right place at the right time, to be drafted in to interview them.
Robert was pre-cosmetics at that time .. and slim, with very 80's hair.
Nice chaps.
Robert Smith - Genuine Legend
A short story to big up the Cure's legendary frontman:
Around 20 years ago, Robert Smith was staying with an acquaintance of mine in Ireland. Smith's bank manager (from Barclays in Harlesden, I recall) rang the house several times, but Robert refused to go to the phone, fearing he would be chastised for the size of his overdraft. At the fourth time of asking, Robert summoned up the courage to take the call - and minutes later was beaming ear-to-ear. Apparently, the bank manager had been under strict instructions to make contact because his branch wasn't authorised to hold current accounts containing more than £2m. That's right, Smith had over two million quid in his current bank account and he actually thought he might be overdrawn.
A wonderful, brilliant rock god - and certainly no bread-head!
Adam and Joe did their Vinyl Police thing with Frank Black
... years ago - what a good show that was - and I have this wonderful memory of Frank Black impersonating Bryan Ferry through a megaphone
I remember that.
And at the very start of that,before they said who it was, they just cut to a shot of him standing at the top of his stairs in his house, fists raised, going "ARHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!" in his best River Euphrates voice. Lord love him.
King of shouting
Brilliant.
Although I was wrong that the screaming-on-the-stairs routine happened before they announced who it was. He does come off as a lovely chap, though.
I love Adam and Joe.
Thank you SO MUCH for that
Cheers!
This friendly chap's acts
of random violence are endearing too
Always got the time of day for Neil Finn
He just always seems like a genuinely pleasant guy who happens to write and play great songs. I fondly remember his "This is a song stolen by Paul Young, and we're stealing it back..." and impromptu faux-KLF "It's Quite Nice Down South" from a few years ago.
Mr J Marr
My GLW and I met Johnny Marr in a hotel lift in Manchester a few years back. It was the morning after a "Manchester vs Cancer" concert at which he had played. I was initially a bit starstruck, so it was Mrs Rae that spoke to him first, but he seemed a genuinely nice guy - interested in our opinions of the previous night's show, and the bands that had played. He obviously had things to do and places to be, but the 60 seconds or so that we spoke were great. I've kicked myself ever since - I should at least have offered to buy him a pint for being part of The Smiths and Electronic.
Johnny Marr's sister...
...lives next door to my mate in south Manchester. He was rather excited when Mr Marr rang his doorbell and asked him if it was OK to park outside his house.
I met him after The Cribs gig
In Leamington last October. I thanked him for all of the brilliant music he had made and he said 'It's a priviledge', which I thought was lovely. He was really great, exactly how you would hope a lifelong hero to be.
The business of show
In general, I like stars who go the extra mile in looking ridiculous and somehow come out the other side seeming very, very cool. Mick Jagger and Iggy Pop, at their respective peaks, are perhaps the greatest examples. Like Freddie Mercury, they divide opinion; too many musicians today don't do enough to elicit any kind of opinion at all.
Iggy Pop
Pure enthusiasm just shines our of him. That doesn't mean I'd like to go out drinking with him though, I'd expect to wake up imprisoned in Mozambique, no money, no passport, no clothes, no Iggy and no idea how I got there.
No doubt about that.
Though I suspect you'd be fully insured.
unless
you were a musician, if reports are to be believed.
A couple
Steve Vai - great guitarist and by all accounts nice bloke. A friend of mine who hero worships SV paid paid for a special ticket to be in a small group to meet Steve and spend time with him at the soundcheck to one of his gigs. Doug aid he was one of the sweetest, most unaffected people you could hope to meet. Apparently Lemmy, in one interview, said his favourite people in the business (mainly due to their eschewing of bullshit) were Billy Gibbons, Dave Grohl and Steve Vai.
Frank Zappa - I miss him. I just loved the way he managed to stay so contrary and honest to his own beliefs. Plus, any man who spent that mount of time shoeing the PMRC with the elegance he manged can't be all bad.
Robert Plant
Not only a bosting singer and a Wolves fan he bought me a bottle of Newcastle Brown after accidentally kicking mine over at a Sutherland Brothers and Quiver concert at Aberystwyth Uni in 1977.I've still got the bottle - empty of course.
By the way - if there is ever a "tenous links to Rock legends" thread in the future you may see this story again. I've dined out on it for years.
I'll give you tenuous
my cousin's first husband went to school with Percy.
Then many years later, my parents saw him in a post office in Oban.
Bet you're thrilled tto learn that.
I am
very thrilled...I was in the Oban post office last year. How mant degrees of seperation is that?
it almost
makes us related
Yes, he always seems polite to fans at Molineux
Good bloke!
Chris Frantz
I interviewed him years ago for a fanzine and I remain convinced he's the nicest man in the world. Tina Weymouth was, contrary to her reputation, lovely as well.
Only one thing offends me about this man:
his music...
Only one?
You've got to read the article in some Irish newspaper from a year or so ago when CdB berates a journalist for a bad review. The man is a knob.
Enjoy
http://www.irishtimes.com/newspaper/features/2009/0911/1224254268225.htm...
Thank you, sir
Beautiful plumage, by the way.
I'm genuinely fond of
Ozzy!
Ronnie Lane
- radiated good humour, made warm and generous music, turned his back on the big time to tour villages in a caravan of trucks, musicians, dancers, jugglers and circus performers...
spot on
Would loved to have had a beer and brandy with Plonk!
I dont care if he`s not very rock n roll
but where would we be without George Martin. Thoroughly decent chapee
Michael Stipe
always strikes me as a chap it would be good to have a pint and a natter with.
All of R.E.M. actually.
I'm an enormous fanboy, but all of them, including Bill Berry, seem very nice.
Stipe!
I was sitting two seats down from him at an outdoor burger joint in Berlin last week. He was sporting a great big bushy beard. I came dangerously close to asking for an autograph and probably delivering some breathless, beery speech about his music but thank Christ he left before that happened.
He seemed cheery enough.
quite a few actually
Agree with Robert Plant,Neil Finn..my number 1 would be Joe Brown,a genuinely nice bloke and a great storyteller.
I met that Paul Heaton once.
He was extremely nice and friendly.
Just remembered...
... ditto Chas Smash
One or two
Guy Garvey. Can't believe he's not been mentioned yet.
Johnny Marr.
Dave Grohl.
Richard Hawley.
Ronnie James Dio. Don't have personal experience of this but a mate of mine met him in some out of the way place on a world tour and ended up getting invited backstage for that night's gig. Extremely friendly and a real gent by all accounts.
Joe Elliot of Def Leppard infamy. Spent a pleasant few minutes chatting to him at Chester Races a few years ago without me twigging who he was - he was a guest on a corporate day out. Poured me a glass or two of champagne. Really nice bloke - no airs or graces (as you'd expect of a Sheffield lad). Dodgy powder blue suit though.
Guy Garvey
is a gentleman of the highest order. As is Pete Turner the bass player with Elbow. Met him a couple of times & he is a very nice bloke.
Bono.
But I guess that goes without saying round here, eh?
But seriously (and I do happen to admire Bono, although I think Adam Clayton might be more fun to go out for a beer with...) I'm totally with Patrick on Freddie at Live Aid - I love that performance... Just legendary. I say this as a long-time Queen naysayer.
Others? I reckon Vince Clarke would be a bit of a chuckle. I could chat to him for hours about bleepy 80s pop music. If he invited Alison Moyet the night would be complete.
I'd hate to meet Bono.
I'm terrified that I'd like him. I met Sting once. He couldn't have been nicer. My disappointment was palpable.
I rather suspect that you don't get Nelson Mandela and the Dalai Lama on speed dial without a certain amount of charm, which I'd hate to be exposed to...
The Ol' Mile-Melter
I once interviewed Nick Lowe, and as you might expect, he was a pure delight. I've certainly heard a few of his anecdotes re-employed in other interviews (Lowe's stories, polished over hours of successive trains and rooms and cars and rooms and rooms and rooms room whilst touring, are the mile-melters referenced above), but as he re-told the story of writing The Beast in Me for Johnny Cash - complete with Cash impersonations - I figured this was as good as talking to a pop star could get.
Awful lot of time for
John Lydon - genuinely interesting bloke
Noel Gallagher - whatever you may think of him, he does spout sense (most of the time)
I'm becoming much fonder of John Lydon
with each interview I read.
the interview
in this months issue is the best i've ever read from him.
Mark Oliver Everett aka E
Here with the former Mrs. Rushdie and his dog Bobby Jr.
Oh yes
A life that would have broken many people, redeemed by self-deprecating wit, honesty and optimism. A genuinely inspriring talent.
Props to Salman
for punching way above his weight there.
David Bowie
A bleedin' wax museum!
Strike a light, guv'nor!
Even before she died
which would add to any fondness I had a special place in my heart for the funny, smart, bloody minded, tough yet vulnerable and criminally underated songwriter - Kirsty MacColl. I think she'd be good for a pint and a laugh down the pub.
Billy Bragg as well
Good calls on Kirsty and the REM guys. But Billy has to be my favourite sound on so many levels and a good laugh besides.
Also despite their reputation I strongly suspect that Radiohead are nice lads.
I think...
...it's only Thom who has the reputation, I think. And despite his reputation as a prickly customer, apparently he's a real sweetheart if you treat him as a bloke and not a rock star. I heard that from a member of the Massive, so it must be true.
Thom Yorke
My brother met Thom Yorke in a branch of Tescos in Cornwall - no joke. He chatted for a minute and was very nice apparently, even signing an autograph. My brother was on duty at the time, however. He's a uniformed officer of the law.
Marc Almond
I have always had a huge mushy soft spot for Mr Almond.
He seems to be a really nice guy, and he's been through all kinds of misery and survived it with his spirit intact, with humility and dignity.
And he is a wonderful artist! Soft Cell, Marc and the Mambas, his solo career; I have bought most of his albums through the years. Some of those albums only had two or three good songs on them, but those songs were good enough to make it worth the price anyway, and worth coming back for more, again and again.
I've just bought his latest album...of course!
The trumpet thread
got me thinking about Nick Heyward and while rock star might be stretching things a bit I am genuinely fond of him. It is amazing how often I return to "Pelican West" and his solo stuff. The man who really should have had everything but it never quite worked out but he seems genuinely pleasant, humble and just a decent bloke if a little eccentric (no bad thing). I would imagine that being involved in one album in your life as good as PW would be enough for most of us so I doff my blue hat for a blue day to Nick Heyward and the number of times his tunes have made me smile like a fool.
Agreed
There is a great Nick Heyward song 'Mr Shirt & Tie' that I have on a CD single - must be a B-side because I can't find it on YouTube. I think it is the best song of the Brit Pop era by a street.
Saw him on the same tour in the Lomax in Liverpool and he was absolutely brilliant live.
Well in, Dave
Edwyn Collins
Met him twice, once back in the early 80's and a few years ago after a show at the ICA, just before his stroke. A lovely bloke, a true gentleman.
A short list
in addition to some of the names above, especially Messrs Finn and Grohl:
Andy Partridge
Tom Baxter
Josh Ritter
Teddy Thompson
Quite a strong correlation between the people
I have seen most live, Suzanne Vega & Pat Metheny-and what I thhink of them as people.
I don't have any first hand knowledge, but I like what I see.
Donald "Buck Dharma" Roeser
I've met him a few times and he's an absolute gent. As were the members of Los Lobos when I ended up drinking their beer backstage once.
Jellied Eels
In all those BBC Four documentaries on music three guys who are always a giggle and worth listening to are Lemmy, Rick Wakeman and Joe Brown.
Yes and Rick Wakeman / They Might Be Giants / Mark King
I was lucky enough to meet Yes after a gig in the states in 2002. Sure enough, (with the exception of Steve Howe who left by the back door) they were all gentlemen willing to take a few minutes to meet the fans left in the hotel bar. They were also slightly surprised to hear an Englishman amongst so many American fans in Vegas.
Mr. Wakeman chatted about his appearances on Countdown and his desire to get back to the Isle of Man to clean his barbeque, much to the befuddlement of the surrounding Americans too. The band all signed my programme and I take my hat off to them all.
I also have a soft spot for the Johns in TMBG who seem to be so brilliantly witty, arch and clever that they'd make fine company.
Anyone who loves Level 42 or have seen Mark King interviewed can't help but warm to him. He seems a larger than life gentleman who'd be welcome to pop round for a cup of tea. He likes pizza too, apparently.
Not exactly rock
But my fantasy uncle would be Christy Moore... preferably sober.
An Irish friend of mine told me a story about him!
His mother worked in an old folks home and met Christy Moore in Dublin. She marched up to him and said, basically, that it would be lovely if he showed up at the home that she worked in and sung some songs for the residents.
So he did.
This makes me happy on so many levels you have no idea.
I also know a woman in Glasgow who knew him in the seventies. Her stories were less nice.
I think this is also good frankly.
Probably fantasy
I went back to university as a mature student in Manchester, v close to the BBC, and always wished I'd bumped into Mark Radcliffe, as I reckoned he could have been a good mate.
I'm very fond of quite a lot of musicians that are probably horrid really, Michael Franti, Guy Garvey, Julian Cope, Julianne Regan, Johnny Marr, er.. Robbie Williams & little Mark Owen, The Zutons and The Coral collectively, Ian McCulloch (based on seeing him in IKEA as a teenager, and my friend's Dad fitting his kitchen), Fab Macca, all of Supergrass, Dave Grohl and Frank Black to name a few.
I spect that they are all unworthy, but I have a soft spot for them anyway.
Robert Forster
I called him a 'living legend' and he seemed quite surprised. A really lovely man, as was Grant McLennan who jumped into the crowd at a Manchester gig and stood next to me after his guitar malfunctioned during the encore!