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I Knew Lloyd Cole's Father
A couple of years ago, during a spell out of work, I started keeping a blog - partly to fill the days, partly to keep my brain ticking over during my "sabbatical". I picked up a few followers over the months, mainly old friends and colleagues, but occasionally random surfers would chance upon the blog and leave a post.
One such poster went by the name of 'Omnibusologist', and he would occasionally stop by and leave the odd comment - and given that I'm a Blue (and he turned out to be a Red) and that I lean to the left while he leans to the right - we had some healthy (and friendly) debates.
After a time, I got back in work and blogged less, moving over to Twitter. Whereupon again our paths crossed and we started following each other and gently ribbing each other, mainly around football and politics. I knew very little about him - only really that his name was Brian, that he'd served in the forces, managed a golf club and moved around the country a fair bit before retiring. Over time though, it became apparent that one of Brian's sons had managed to pick up a bit of fame and - eventually - the penny finally dropped.
Brian is Lloyd Cole's Dad!
Not that this made any difference - we continued (and continue) an occasional to and fro on Twitter.
Anyway - to the point of the story. Tonight I was lucky enough (in the company of Prestonia of this parish but not, sadly, PaddyH) to see Lloyd performing, solo and acoustic, in Morecambe. Excellent show and a fuller report may follow in due course.
I noticed, in the interval, an elderly gentleman strolling around the venue and eventually disappearing backstage. Suspicions aroused, I tracked him down after the show and introduced myself. It was, indeed, Brian, and we had a nice chat about the show and this and that. Brian confirmed my suspicions that he was a lovely gentleman and it was a pleasure to finally meet him in person.
And, of course, it finally gives me the opportunity to use the excruciatingly tortuous pun in the thread title above.
Has anyone else unknowingly struck up a friendship with a rock star's parents?
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What a great...
... story. Sorry, no, I've never met a rock star's parents.
I have recounted the story of
my dying friend lambasting the child of a star before. Teddy Thompson took it like a champ.
you could have gone with "my brand new friend" as well...
Kind of!
I'm a mate of Richard Thompson's daughter (herself a musician), and bumped into her equally celebrated mum before a gig. Initially, I was all (Kathy Burke in Kevin the Teenager sketch) "'Ello Mrs Thompson, pardon me Mrs Thompson, fanks Mrs Thompson..." But "Call me Linda" turned out to be such a smashing, down to earth lady, who even bought me two drinks while waiting for her daughter to take the stage. I love them Thompsons.
two mums
I was in the room for a meeting of rock mothers (a mummit?) when David Ford's mum met Teddy Thompson's mum backstage at Bury.
Linda was absolutely charming and chatty. When the Thompsons left we spotted the untouched bottle of single malt that was part of Teddy's rider. Before we got to it Linda reappeared, said "I forgot my hat" and left again, with the scotch.
Surname confusion
Born Linda Pettifer, took the professional name Peters, then the married name Thompson, divorced and may well have used the name Peters (or Pettifer) again for a while, then married a man called Kenis in the 80s, but continues to use the name Thompson professionally.
'Call me Linda' is probably easier all round than explaining that every time your introduced to someone!
Brother Brian
I just learned this. Maybe it was on here?
Her brothers is actor Brian Pettifer (Rab C Nesbitt and tons more).
Fantastic!
And a penny drops - there was a photo of him at a Thompson wedding and I wondered what he was doing there... You wouldn't immediately place them as brother and sister would you?
D'oh!
Curse that iPad lag...
No, but...
...I have met Bruce Springsteen's auntie...
Partying with the stars?
My sister (& Dad) used to work with Roddy Frame's dad. When I was waiting for the Boy Wonder to come on stage last month, I texted her to ask if, just possibly, wee Roddy used to get dragged along to his dad's works annual Childrens Christmas Parties, the same ones we had to go to?
Her response: "Definitely - but we were Oblivious."
My favourite post
That has to be my favourite post I've ever read here. The internet is a funny little place.
Donovan's mum & dad
We were standing chatting outside Donovan's dressing room backstage at the Albert Hall in January 1967 and as assorted celebs came and went (jazzer Jon Hendricks and folk queen Julie Felix among them) I asked why they weren't going inside.
"Not while HE'S in there!" Don's mum hissed.
It transpired that "HE" was Gypsy Dave, Donovan's mate, constant companion and confidant.
For whatever reason it seems Mr & Mrs Leitch hated Gyp with a passion.
Brilliant, Paul!
What a great story. I wish I had a similar one. I don't, but that really made me smile. Cheers!
I'm sure Brian won't mind me sharing...
...but I tweeted a link to this thread last night that he picked up on. He responded thus:
Lovely bloke.
And to respond to my own post, I (almost) knew Elton John's dad as well! One of my first jobs was with Unilever, in their research labs in Port Sunlight, and the office I worked in was the same as Stan Dwight. Unfortunately for this story, Stan had just retired before I started there so I never got to meet him.
Oh, and also at Unilever, my dad used to work with Pete Burns' dad. Pete apparently earned more from 'You Spin Me Round...' than his dad did in his whole life.
Good to know...
...that Pete didn't waste all that money on vanity or fripperies, then.
And he's kept his looks as well
Oh, no, wait a minute...
Went to school...
...with Alex Kapranos' dad and Lauren Laverne's, too. Never met them since, though
Lovely story
Paul.
Further down the musical pecking order
My brother's neighbour is the dad of one of the Wave Pictures.
Anyone enjoying this thread should get Roy Wilkinson's Do It For Your Mum - an excerpt from which appeared the the mag a few months back. Top quality British Sea Power rock dad daftness.
My first thought...
no such luck. That bloody Waring chap is such a social butterfly. Then I remembered I have been drinking in the company of Danny Jones's mum on several occasions in that there Bolton Man & Sythe public house, with several mutual friends. Y'know, him from McFly.
You don't know who it is
As you may or may not know by now, I work in a grocery store.
Over the years a number of Swedish musicians have been regular customers before their careers have taken off and they've moved on to a posher area (sometimes it's the other way around, we get them when they achive hasbeen status).
One girl from a minor pop group (the one that became a hasbeen, not the two others that went on to bigger things) lived in the area for a few years and her mother used to come in to do the shopping a lot, while looking after the grandchildren.
This lady was extremely chatty of the variety when they have absolutely no boundaries of integrity. I learned a lot of intimate details about her daughter, including the -hrm- "feminine plumming problems" that she was going through.
I don't think her daughter would have let her go shopping quite so often if she had known how much gossip her mother was distributing.
I worked with Charlie Burchill's dad.
In the late 70s, I had a summer job at British Rail Parcels in Salkeld St, Glasgow. I was one of 4 students there, sitting in the very smoky bothy with the permanent staff. Some of them regarded us suspiciously, some ignored us entirely. Some helped us get along in the fairly brutal environment.
Charlie Burchill's dad was a charge-hand there, and Colin & I were put in his care on our first day. We were taken out to a goods train, which was full of breakable items in cardboard boxes, and broadly instructed to empty them into "brutes" - blue wagons which one or two people could take around the depot. Colin & I set to work, enthusiastically unloading the train and gathering the brutes at the end of the platform for later collection.
After an hour and a half, Mr B came to see how we were getting on. He was appalled, and used some industrial language to voice his displeasure. (One aspect of working there was that on the way home I would think over the day's events and laughter to see if there were any stories I could tell at home, at all.)
"Jesus Christ, look at the state of this! That trains a day's work for three men, and you boys are nearly finished. Do you smoke ? Any fags with you ? Right, sit down and have one of these while I have a think". In our youthful exuberance we were in danger of smashing all throughput records, and had accidentally made the men who did this for a living look bone idle. He found some other tidying up work for us to do for several hours until we were sent back at 3:30 to finish the train. "Don't be daft, boys".
He was a lovely chap, looked out for us to make sure that we were asked to the pub on a Friday lunchtime, but made sure we didn't get caught up in drinking at the rate of our colleagues. 4 pints with whisky chasers may be OK for lunch if you are used to it, but would have been ruinous for us callow youths. Having said that, one Friday afternoon there was some hands-on Industrial Relations. A newly-promoted charge hand had been lording it over his team for the 2 weeks since his elevation, and one of them, emboldened by a wee swally, decided to express his dissatisfaction by calling him a jumped-up (very naughty word that I'm not typing here) then decking him with a punch.
At the end of the summer, I was going on to Langside College to do some more Highers. He wished me well, saying with mild disappointment that if I had stuck in, I could have made it to Leading Railman, over time. I was greatly touched - that was his boss's level.
Thanks for your kind comments above, everyone
I did a review, too...
http://www.wordmagazine.co.uk/content/lloyd-cole
Excellent story, Paul -
Excellent story, Paul - which has led to me now following you and Brian on Twitter!
You mean you weren't following me already?
Poor show young man! ;-)
What's in a name?
Intriguingly, I knew Lloyd George's daughter.
A few years ago, when Lloyd brought his family over to visit the part of north Wales in which I had been raised; knowing that he had been named after the great man, he booked us all into a small hotel which had been a family home of Lloyd George.
Impressed!
Both by your Lloyd George connection and that you've come to join us on the blog - welcome!
Now, if Roddy's dad happens to be lurking, could you just confirm my suspicions about the NEL Children's Christmas parties...
Hi Brian!
*waves*
You'll be welcome here - there's no more friendly corner of the Internet than this.
They even tolerate my ramblings from time to time. As you can see.
You managed to get out of Morecambe in one piece then?
Damian Hirst's Mum
was as charming and kind-hearted as her astoundingly talented son.
I met Roy Harper's brother
He was the estates manager at Bangor Uni and came into the lab one day. Nice guy.