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Help! I'm going to DJ at a wedding!
Right folks, I have a problem, in about a week I'm going to be a wedding DJ.
I have done this before. The bride told me "Just bring what we liked as students" so I showed up with a lot of nineties indie and dance music, put on Pulp's Disco 2000, and promptly had the mother of the bride running up to me in a panic, terrified I was going to inflict heavy metal on everyone. I hastily whipped out the respective bests of ABBA, Dolly Parton, Neil Diamond and the Eighties and just about got through the night.
This time round I'm one of eight friends of the bride and groom and we're all taking an hour each. They want the music to be better than the usual wedding fare, but I've been burnt before by relatives of the happy couple and will be packing those best ofs again just in case.
However can the massive recommend me unusual wedding tunes which will simultaneously move the crowd without scaring the horses or the elderly relatives?
All suggestions welcomed.
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Too Many DJs!
eight fighting over the decks? Thats gonna get messy. Yeah, weddings are about the people who wanna dance and no matter what the bride and groom might want, that goes out of the window as soon as the aunties and cousins hit the floor....plenty of tune reccomendations for you but I have a Teenage Fanclub concert to attend to first. I'll be back to you later.....
It's a case of who's in charge
That's not strictly true. We gave the DJ some quite strict orders and when he was clearly beginning to be swayed by some of the less musically discerning dancers, we put him straight. I reckon that most people at a wedding aren't going to dance most of the time so it's more important that the music is good - I would have been happy if nobody had danced all night as long as the music was good. We had a lot of complements about the standard of music played and that wouldn't have been the case if the DJ had been fully in charge.
We banned the normal "party" songs and along with some of our more obscure favourites, went for some more obscure Motown, a bit of rock and roll (it was unusual to hear rnr at a wedding that wasn't bloody Jive Bunny). You might be surprised how many people rush to dance to Stone Roses. There's a lot of very dancable Rolling Stones and we had a good pogo to a bit of Clash & The Damned as well.
I suppose it depends on how keen the bride and groom are about what they want how much you get away with.
If I did it again (which I'm not intending to!), then I'd control the whole thing myself with a combination of prearranged playlists and other stuff dropped in when appropriate all from the safety of an ipod touch and a server.
I went to a wedding recently...
... where the bride and groom asked all the guests for three song suggestions, the idea being that they'd try and fit at least one from each person onto the playlist. They weren't best pleased, then, to find the DJ just ignored their instructions and wound up playing whatever he felt like.
Something for everyone, including scaring the horses ..
Shout (Parts 1 & 2) The Isley Brothers
Ring Of Fire Johnny Cash
Louie Louie The Kingsmen
Oh, Pretty Woman Roy Orbison
Satisfaction The Rolling Stones
Cherry, Cherry Neil Diamond
Wild Thing The Troggs
Respect Aretha Franklin
Gimme Some Lovin’ The Spencer Davis Group
Sympathy For The Devil The Rolling Stones
Joy To The World Three Dog Night
Nutbush City Limits Ike & Tina Turner
That's The Way (I Like It) KC & The Sunshine Band
Sweet Home Alabama Lynyrd Skynyrd
Love Really Hurts Without You Billy Ocean
Play That Funky Music Wild Cherry
I Want You To Want Me (Live) Cheap Trick
Pop Muzik M
You Shook Me All Night Long AC/DC
What I Like About You The Romantics
Tainted Love Soft Cell
1999 Prince
Mickey Toni Basil
Blister In The Sun Violent Femmes
Girls Just Want To Have Fun Cyndi Lauper
Burning Up Madonna
You Spin Me Round (Like A Record) Dead Or Alive
Mony Mony Billy Idol
Respectable Mel & Kim
I'm Gonna Be (500 Miles) The Proclaimers
Mama Said Knock You Out LL Cool J
Ice Ice Baby Vanilla Ice
Jump Around House Of Pain
Jump Kris Kross
Baby Got Back Sir Mix-A-Lot
Macarena Los Del Rio
How Bizarre OMC
Horny Mousse T.
Mambo No 5 Lou Bega
Hey Baby D J Otzi
Get The Party Started Pink
Crazy In Love Beyonce
Are You Gonna Be My Girl Jet
Rebellion (Lies) Arcade Fire
Let's Get Retarded Black Eyed Peas
Take Me Out Franz Ferdinand
Mr. Brightside The Killers
An Honest Mistake The Bravery
Crazy Gnarls Barkley
Hips Don't Lie Shakira
The Sweet Escape Gwen Stefani
The wedding....just beautiful!!!
I've done this a few times
and I tended to play a couple of tracks in a similar vein back-to-back and then switch to a different genre with a couple more back-to-backs and so on. That way no one is waiting too long for "their music" to arrive for a dance. Normally the later the time the more raucous you can make it (I managed to squeeze in Spear of Destiny's Liberator after the oldies had gone to bed at one wedding).
Always play something that has an easy beat to follow. Genres I tend to go for are:
60s soul/R n B classics
The Indie Disco
80s pop
70s dad rock (rather than heavy metal)
In each case I try to opt for a less obvious choice with an obvious one in the back-to-backs so if it was The Supremes I'd play The Happening rather than Baby Love alongside Nina Simone's My Baby Just Cares For Me, if it was Blur I'd play Bang rather than Girls and Boys alongside Pulp's DISCO 2000 and so on. It seems to work out quite well and you don't feel like you've spent all night catering to a lowest common denominator.
In terms of unusual I offer
Prefab Sprout - The Wedding March
Bjork - Big Time Sensuality
M. Ward - Never Had Nobody Like You
Pixies - Here Comes Your Man
Kings of Convenience - I'd Rather Dance With You
The Concretes - You Can't Hurry Love
Crowded House - Something So Strong
Feist - My Moon My Man
and a new one:
Teenage Fanclub - Baby Lee
Good work
That's my M.O. too,
mix and match but keeping to 2-3 tunes in the same vein if people are dancing and avoiding crunching gear-changes.
It is possible to put on fantastic evening's music that people of all ages can get down to, without playing the obvious stuff, and without playing genuinely shit stuff like Jive Bunny, The Time Warp, Westlife etc.
Where it falls down for me is when you have loads of young kids there who want all that autotune crap like Black Eyed Peas or Tiny Tempah.....nightmare crowd!
I like that grouping idea a lot.
My MO in the past has been "is anyone still dancing?" and I'm not bad at avoiding crunchy gear changes. But I've never done the grouping thing. Will investigate.
Andy Williams' Can't Take My Eyes Off You
A sing-a-long for all ages.
Plus: Tom Jones' Green Green Grass of Home ('time to slow it right down now for all you lovely couples')
Neil Diamond's Sweet Caroline
David Essex's Hold Me Close
Fairground Attraction's Perfect
Aztec Camera - Obvious
Madness - It Must Be Love
Bananarama/ ABC
Monkees - I'm a Believer
and to end a 40-minute live version of The Velvets' Sister Ray (only kidding)
Most of these songs were road-tested at my wedding and they went down a treat.
Green Green Grass Of Home
THIS version will go down well... possibly...
An obvious choice but this will work
My knowledge of weddings is about on a par with...
my knowledge of the sex life of voles, but I would like to suggest Can't Take My Eyes Off Of You by Andy Williams.
Corker
Never Fails, perfect last tune as people can have a bit of a smooch and then..."bah bah bah bah...BAH BAH BAH BAH...I love you baaaaayyybeee...."
I usually find that
'William, It Was Really Nothing' by The Smiths goes down a treat at a wedding.
When I say usually... I just played it the once. At the one wedding. OK, it was a short career in the DJ game, I admit.
My problem is...
... the groom loves hip hop and has asked for it. The bride meanwhile likes ABBA and eighties stuff. They both want a cool wedding. Obviously all of us will be fingering our copies of Aerosmith and Run DMC's version of Walk This Way, beyond this we worry about antagonising the crowd.
Have been inflicting wedding classics on my FPO this evening. So far she has liked
- Lady Marmalade by Labelle
- Superstition - Stevie Wonder
- Le Freak - Chic
She has also suggested Livin' On A Prayer by Bon Jovi. I am fingering copies of Groove is In The Heart and Man! I Feel Like A Woman, as I am shameless but would rather not be. Good choice The Happening up there. Big Time Sensuality strikes me as a goodie as well...
Some compromise choices
given the tastes of the bride and groom: easy listening hip hop
Gang Starr - Lovesick (Upbeat Mix)
PM Dawn - Set Adrift On Memory Bliss
Urban Dance Squad - Deeper Shade of Soul
Agadoo
Star Trekkin' and some Jive Bunny, can't go wrong!
You can DJ at my wedding...
just so long as you promise to play Atmosphere by Russ Abbott as well.
I'll let you know when I've found a potential FPO.
SKIDS
Into the Valley, a shoutey chorus, some keen dance moves and an innuendo laden title ;)
Hello, Sailor
is it now compulsory
to dance (like an eejit) at weddings, no wonder I attend few and have remained single
This is what I'd play ...
... but I'm not sure you'd have many people dancing:
I Don't Know What It Is Rufus Wainwright
Clair De Lune From Suite Bergamasque Claude Debussy
Holes Mercury Rev
Into My Arms Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds
Les Contes d'Hoffmann – Barcacarolle Offenbach
You Do Something To Me Paul Weller
High Life Counting Crows
La Cienega Just Smiled Ryan Adams
May You Never John Martyn
Northern Sky Nick Drake
Sweet Song Blur
If I Were A Carpenter Robert Plant
Of A Broken Heart Zwan
When Love Breaks Down Prefab Sprout
One U2
Falling At Your Feet Daniel Lanois & Bono
Fall At Your Feet Crowded House
Jeannie's Diary Eels
Under Your Charms Josh Rouse
breathless Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds
Thirteen Kathryn Williams
Baby Can I Hold You Tracy Chapman
Queen Matilda Shack
From The Morning Nick Drake
When The Stars Go Blue Ryan Adams
You've Got A Friend Carole King
You Get Me Lost Freedy Johnston
A Man And A Woman U2
Jesus, Etc. Wilco
Sweet Li'l Thing Eels
Valley Winter Song Fountains Of Wayne
Kettle's On The Feeling
Thinking of You Paul Weller
Trouble Ray LaMontagne
Orange Sky Alexi Murdoch
(Are You) The One I've Been Waiting For? Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds
Love Compared With You Steve Harley & Cockney Rebel
Queen Matilda Shack
Chicago Sufjan Stevens
In Your Eyes Peter Gabriel
The Morning Fog Kate Bush
Naked As We Came Iron & Wine
Willie Cat Power
Heaven DJ Sammy & Yanou Feat. Do
Crazy Love Van Morrison
Coles Corner Richard Hawley
Have I Told You Lately Van Morrison
Wonderwall Ryan Adams
Hit the Ground Lizz Wright
Songbird Fleetwood Mac
The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face Roberta Flack
Sunset Kate Bush
To the Country Laura Veirs
Wonderful Josh Rouse
Never Give Up Ron Sexsmith
Bless The Weather John Martyn
On An Island David Gilmour
Here Comes The Sun The Beatles
I'll Find My Way Home Jon & Vangelis
You're My Best Friend Queen
Friday I'm in Love The Cure
She Elvis Costello
Old Thames Side Richard Thompson
The Dress Looks Nice On You Sufjan Stevens
When We Become Clem Snide
Nightswimming R.E.M.
Barfly Ray LaMontagne
Good Man Josh Ritter
Our House Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young
Will You Love Me Tomorrow? Carole King
Help Me Joni Mitchell
Blackbird Beatles
Dear God...
... well Friday I'm In Love is tempting. The rest are definately original.
Woh!
I admire the effort and there are some lovely songs in the list but trust me Steerpike you'd get lynched before you got to the end of 'Holes' by Mercury Rev. That's a playlist for a very long funeral! You're supposed to get people dancing!
I agree
(I've never liked weddings much)
My wedding DJ experience..
Started off with Ocean Colour Scene's Hundred Mile High City. Great song. Lots of guitar and drums. Makes me want to dance.
Didn't make anyone else want to dance. Apart from a brave few. How was I to know that a song in 12/8 is tricky to dance to?
What did go down a treat was the Esoteric Cheese section. Andy Williams, Carpenters, Glenn Campbell and, rather oddly, Foggy Mountain Breakdown by Earl Scruggs and Lester Flatts. I stuck on a few seconds of it for a giggle and everyone went into manic thumbs-under-imaginary-braces hoedown yee-haw mode. So I let it play. Bedlam!
Another one which caused aunties and grannies to be trampled underfoot in the rush to the dancefloor was Fun Lovin' Criminal by TFLCs.
And remember AC/DC. Almost universal appeal now.
And if you can download the History Of Dance music, that's always a giggle.
Now, if the happy couple
have a sense of humour this would be perfect for their first dance just for the first line alone. In my experience it sums up marriage perfectly.
you can't
resist it, can you Dave?
tee-hee
Songs by a miserable bastard
for a miserable bastard and for any occasion I can shoe horn one in.
I was a tape music DJ for many years
Size up the crowd and play the old folks stuff early.Talk to people and get a sense of what they like to dance to.Have songs like 'Long cool woman in a black dress' ready to put on in a moments notice.Play to the crowd, if the 50's are workin play lots of Elvis, Buddy Holly, and Rock around the clock.When I did a set of 60's music I would stay in the same style ie: several Motown songs in a row and then off to Daydream Believer and see if they follow you.If they don't, play a waltz, and then build it up with another decade or Genre.
Some songs to play in case nothing works:Summertime blues,Rockin in the USA,Gloria,YMCA,Footloose,Pretty Woman,The Twist,Funky Cold Medina,Faith,and Shook me all night long.And lastly make lists of music that are danceable(at least a 100 beats per minute and more) aso that you can read the songs in case you get stuck for something to play.Don't forget to ask the crowd for requests and try to play them where they fit into your set list.Good luck
Spot on Andrew!
I use a laptop with a Midi controller, an audio interface and a hard drive full mp3s (enough to play for an entire week without playing the same song twice). The technology is different, and I have pretty much everything on standby but the basic laws of the dancefloor and the golden rules of DJing haven't changed at all!
I'm back.....I can't get my head around the logistics?
If there are 8 DJs playing an hour each what time does this do finish?? Even if you have a licence till 2am that means someone has to go at 6pm when presumably people will still be digesting their wedding dinner, possibly listening to speeches and the evening shift won't have arrived. Or is this one of those mad weddings that goes on for days?!
What you play kind of depends on what time you're on. You can play all the classic Motown and disco hits but if it's 7.30 and people are just starting to arrive for the night do you're not gonna fill the floor (and you're possibly gonna waste all the best gold that one of the other guys has lined up).
Prime dancing starts from about 9.30-10pm when people start feeling suitably refreshed...unless there is a hot buffet with filling food like curry...that is the enemy of the DJ!
If you do find yourself playing the 'early doors' shift then I'd suggest just play whatever you like but keep it upbeat and cheery and not too obscure. You're just soundtracking people chatting and getting set for the rest of the night...this is the time to just show off your cool music taste.
If you do get one of the prime time slots then you're definitely on the right lines with Chic, Stevie etc. The trick is, get the girls dancing and the boys will follow.
You *do* have to play songs people know later on or you'll just piss people off. However, it is possible to get people dancing without playing total crap like Jive Bunny or the Grease Megamix or playing stuff you personally hate. Think about reasonably well known songs that you can dance to yourself and play those. An absolute winning trio of tunes: Geno by Dexys, followed by The Specials 'Gangsters', followed by Night Boat to Cairo by Madness...watch the floor go mad.
You can't fail with 'Crazy in Love' by Beyonce. Stick 'There She Goes' by the Las and follow it up with The Smiths or The Stone Roses. Obvious stuff but people will dance and at least its not rubbish!
I've never seen a dancefloor not fill when 'White Lines' by Grandmaster Flash comes on, or 'Rip it Up' by Orange Juice...just great tunes that everyone will dance to. Play something people might not have heard for a while but is instantly grooveable....'Stool Pigeon' by the mighty Kid Creole perhaps! Ha cha cha chaaaa!
What you and the 7 other DJs may find is that people will hassle you to play what they want and probably between all of you you'll have what people want but be prepared to ditch the plan and tear up the script and just go along with the groove of the night.
If it was up to me, I'd just suggest rather than having an hour each the the 8 DJs work as a bit of a Tag Team and maybe take 2-3 songs each...it might work quite well and you might find you compete to see who can get the most people dancing which will work well for the newlyweds and their crowd (and remember it's *their* night!)
I'm afraid I don't agree, sir
The only reason people like me, who love dancing, will dance to The Stone Roses, La's and their ilk is cos it's brilliant music. But all the while we'll be thinking "Please play some brilliant DANCE music". Although The Happy Mondays qualify. And I agree with you on Rip It Up and White Lines.
Yeah but no but
If people dance to it, and they do it is dance music isn't it? I don't play that stuff to be cool, they're pretty obvious choices anyway, I play them so people will dance. Crikey if I *really* played my own personal music taste the floor would be full of tumbleweed!
Familiarity breeds intent
Dr Volume pretty much hits the nail on the head.
Assuming you're on a "dancing slot" then a particular thought (from the point of view of a guest / potential dancer) is that the first few seconds of any track are the point at which you decide whether or not to get up (or stay on). You could find the grooviest, funkiest piece of danceable Northern Soul or Tropicalia, but if people don;t know it they'll be absent from the dancefloor.
I'm afraid this is all about engaging people's feet, not their musical minds. That's why you'll probably have to play lots of well-known stuff, but still slip in the occasional token nod to the groom's wishes.
I forgot to add
if you're on a "dinner slot" then please please please watch the volume: there are few things in life more irritating than a DJ blaring away his music while people are meant to be talking and striking up the brief "relationships" that will see them through for the rest of the night. I guess you'd have to sit at the nearest table to gauge whether you need to turn it down or not.
I am on post dinner but pre prime dancing...
... so around 8.
Hence my nerves, I'm not expecting dancefloor mayhem, but a relatively well stoked room of happy people in the mood to shuffle would be a good thing. Last wedding I went to the song that got the biggest response was definately Livin' On A Prayer but played around 11 in the evening when pissed people were already dancing.
I'm thinking that the Stones will feature, as will Motown, Superstitious is going on for sure, I always play some Chic and Mel and Kim's Respectable is my never fails cheesy as hell, get the women dancing tune, which is generally "dropped"
I think its eight people, can't remember exactly how many to be honest with you. But I'm quite early, I think, because at uni I used to annoy people with Frank Sinatra tunes post clubbing.
If that's your slot
then the rule of thumb is that you'll have to appeal to the ladies as they'll be itching for a dance (guys I know never "itch" for a dance) after the dinner so no "bloke" songs as they'll probably require more embrocation to get up for anything so epic as Livin' On A Prayer (though again in my experience it's the ladies who tend to want that song more than the men).
Don't be nervous Mr G
your suggestions sound perfectly fine to me. I guess the main thing is to have a wide variety at your fingertips and be prepared to tear up the script and play whatever seems to keep people on the dancefloor. As long as you've got at least a dozen people up at any time you're doing alright for that time. Good luck!
Hmmm...
... you are completely correct here Mr Bisto. A lady pleasing "set" is what is needed here. I flat out refuse to play Robbie Williams though.
Pondering and reading what has been suggested, and bearing the time frame I'm on, I'm thinking lots of female vocalists, decent seventies and eighties pop (but not always the obvious ones), a couple of coolish tunes to appeal to the groom and his mates.
Too early for Dancing Queen and Living on a Prayer, perhaps not too early for Take A Chance On Me or You Shook Me All Night Long though is how my brain is working. Crazy In Love ought to keep the pop ands hip hop contingents happy surely? I Will Survive is now binned, people need to be drunk later in the evening for that. Ditto YMCA.
I really do want to play the KLF though. Surely Justified and Ancient would work at a wedding these days? Tammy Wynnete for the oldies, nostalgia for us thirty somethings?
3a.m. Eternal...
...would be another good KLF choice.
I think you absolutely can't go wrong with soul and r 'n' b classics. Some suggestions:
- Do You Love Me by The Countours
- Homework by the J. Geils Band
- Tears Of A Clown by Smokey Robinson and the Miracles
- Think by Aretha
- Get Up Offa That Thing by James Brown
- Hard To Handle by Otis Redding. The Black Crowes version works equally well.
- Get Ready (Here I Come) by Smokey Robinson. The Ash cover of this is also good.
- I Know You Got Soul by Bobby Byrd
- Heard It On The Grapevine
Other great, lady friendly wedding songs:
- Bootie Call by All Saints
- Walk Like An Egyptian by The Bangles
- Crazy In Love by Beyoncé
- What You Waiting For by Gwen Stefani
- Don't Leave Me This Way by the Communards. Yes, this version.
- The Lovecats by The Cure
- You Can Get It If You Really Want - Jimmy Cliff or Desmond Dekker
- Cha Cha Twist by the Detroit Cobras
- Baby I Love You So by Jacob Miller (the dub of this by King Tubby is bloody excellent too, but might be a bit stoned for a wedding)
- Lots and lots of Madonna. I suggest Ray of Light, Hung Up, Holiday, Like A Virgin, Lucky Star, Like A Prayer.
- Honey by Moby. EVERYONE dances to this, in my experience.
- Express Yourself by NWA. Their funkiest song, and profanity-free.
- 99 Luftballons by Nena (in German, compulsorily)
- Gloria by Patti Smith
- Pull Shapes by the Pipettes. People dance to this even though most of them have never heard it before. Perfect.
- Here Comes Your Man by the Pixies. Seriously. It's a winner.
- Let's Go Crazy by Prince
- Do You Wanna Dance? by the Ramones
- Theme From S Express by S Express
- Take Your Mama by Scissor Sisters
- Spice Up Your Life by the Spice Girls.
- He's On The Phone by St Etienne
- B-Boy Breakdown by Steinski. Again, no-one will know it but it's IMPOSSIBLE to keep still when this is on. Seek it out.
- Round Round by Sugababes
- And She Was by Talking Heads
- Can I Kick It? by A Tribe Called Quest. Bonita Applebum and I Left My Wallet in El Segundo are equally danceable, but less well known.
- Body Movin' by Beastie Boys (Fatboy Slim remix)
- Sharp Dressed Man by ZZ Top
Phew. That went on a bit. But on the few occasions I've been put in charge of the music, all of the above have gone off like a bomb. And yes, they all come from my own collection. What's life without a little uncomplicated pop?
Oh, and I think all discos should finish with Behind Closed Doors by Charlie Rich as the slow dance.
Good to the Last Drop
Some marvelous choices here. I'm assembling a mix for a family reunion this summer, so sadly I can't utilise your perfect perfect choice for a final song. Mr. Rich = class.
Do you dance?
The worst dj's are blokes who love music but don't love dancing. I LOVE dancing. I have 3 failsafe tips: Relax by Frankie, Crazy by Gnarls Barkley and I Don't Feel Like Dancing by the Scissor Sisters. Everyone'll think you're gay, but hey, that's never bothered me!
dancefloor fillers
I frequently play in a band at weddings and have found that there's no point in trying to throw anything too obscure into the set, no matter how brilliant or "cool" the song may be. The guests will most likely be indifferent to it because they just want to hear songs they know.
The songs which get a great response are old classics like Blame it on the Boogie, Sir Duke, Signed Sealed Delivered,Sweet Home Alabama, Higher and Higher, 9 to 5 (the ladies love this one for some reason), Kiss...
But the one song which never fails to have everyone on the dancefloor is Don't Stop Believing. At the last few weddings when we played this the dancefloor was packed with everyone jumping around to it and singing along - it's definitely a crowd pleaser.
Floor savers
I think the plan is coming together. The key, as established above is to get the ladies dancing, and the men will follow. Here are some copper-bottomed, gold-plated, guaranteed floor savers to refill the dancefloor if the tricky mix from Iron & Wine to Cat Power has cleared the area.
Relight my fire - Dan Hartman (or at a push Take That)
Into the Groove - Madonna
All Night Long - Lionel Ritchie
Where Love Lives - Alison Limerick
Finally - Ce Ce Peniston
Free - Ultra Nate
I've Got a Feeling - Black Eyed Peas (it's got a vocoder on so can't be bad)
My version of Relight My Fire is ten minutes long!
Scissor Sisters are definately packed. If I was on late I'd play Filthy Gorgeous, as I'm on early I suspect Take Your Mama might go down well.
Last time I wedding DJed I played 9 to 5 and like what I saw, so that's one of my fail safe's.
So what I'm hearing is gay classics and lady vocalists? I can definately do that! *packs Tainted Love and the best of Kylie*
The plan is coming together. Good lady pleasers duly appreciated...
I think the phrase lady pleaser
Probably belongs on a whole other thread :-)
Vertigo / Relight my fire (King Tim edit)
I tend to cut it in after around 4 and a half minutes. There are 4 beats (which is a boon for mixing with) and then it goes into the main instrumental 'Relight my fire' theme which triggers dancefloor delight. I quite like the synthy noodlings of Vertigo but agree that it's not for a tightly packed 'Happy hour' set.
This is what I did for my hour at a friend's wedding
It went down an absolute storm, I was really pleased, cos I was really nervous:
Get It On/T Rex
Need You Tonight/INXS
In Between Days/The Cure
Fools Gold/Stone Roses
I'm Free/Soup Dragons
Hippychick/Soho
Rocks/Primal Scream
Connection/Elastica
Pump It Up/Elvis Costello
Teenage Kicks/Undertones
Cool For Cats/Squeeze
Gangsters/Specials
Israelites/Desmond Dekker
Green Onions/Booker T
These Boots Were Made For Walkin/Nancy Sinatra
Satisfaction/Stones
Blockbuster/Sweet
Queen Bitch/Bowie
Jungle Rock/Hank Mizell
Nutbush city Limits/Ike and Tina Turner
Knock On Wood/Amii Stewart
Doin' The Do/Betty Boo
You Spin Me Round/Dead Or Alive
Atomic/Blondie
Footloose/Kenny Loggins
That's
a crowd pleasing set-list if ever I saw one.
And look! No frickin' Love Shack!!
An exemplary set
Textbook stuff!
Can't go wrong with Betty Boo!
If you don't mind me saying...
... that truly is excellent. It's pop, its not obvious, and surely folks would dance (apart from the middle of Cool For Cats of course, a true leg tangler if ever I heard one).
Thanks massive! I genuinely think I have a vague idea of what I want to do now.
Thanks! I know what I'd dance to
...and it's never Dancing Queen or Love Shack or Wanna Be Startin' Something. Luckily many other people feel the same way
Some from my wedding....
Ramones - Baby, I Love You (for our first dance)
John Paul Young - Love Is In The Air
Wannadies - You and Me Song
Beatles - I Saw Her Standing There
Rolling Stones - Get Off My Cloud / Jumpin Jack Flash
Dusty Springfield - Little by Little
Stephanie Mills - Never Knew Love Like This
Average White Band - Lets Go Round Again
A Taste of Honey - Boogie Oogie Oogie
Sister Sledge - He's the Greatest Dancer
Brothers Johnson - Stomp
Barry White - You're The First, My Last, My Everything
Stevie Wonder - Superstition
Madness - Baggy Trousers
Blondie - Heart of Glass
Small Faces - Sha La La La Lee
Blur - Girls and Boys
amongst others.
New Order - Blue Monday
My brother had this at his reception. All of the original version! Well done to him. Danced like a monkey accordingly.
If you
seque from that into 'I Feel Love' by Donna Summer....works a treat if you time it right.
Was at a civil partnership t'other week
expecting music to be ace , two DJ's combined age 132 worst shindig I've been to for a long while.
My recommendation .........hire a good band.
(And partake of several sherberts)
Why not try..........
Play the first 20-30 seconds of Robbie Williams' Angels then abruptly stop it, announce down the microphone "All those currently dancing are to be escorted out of the building to be shot out back", then drop in.......
Marvin Gaye - How Sweet It Is To Be Loved By You
As the song fades, do an over-elaborate bow and saunter to the bar for a steady flow of free beer and nods of respect.
Who needs an hour. Less is more.
I'm really really sorry
but you can't go wrong with Relight My Fire and Rule the World is the perfect slowie. Also, always guaranteed to get the aunties on the dancefloor is Hey Ya by OutKast, Respectable by Mel n Kim and Song 2 by Blur.
Take advice from Dr Volume - he has DJed under some dreadful circumstances and always got them dancing!
I would consider myself a music snob...
... but I make an exception for weddings.
You just want to fill the dancefloor. That's it. Not impress. Not educate. Not broaden horizons. Just get people up and moving.
Bear in mind here that you are dealing with an age range between about 8 and 80, so when you're picking songs ask yourself whether they would work on both your nephew and your granddad.
For my own wedding, the remit was to avoid the top 10/contemporary pop and just go with the old school dancefloor fillers/singalongs. The Monkees, Groove is in the Heart, Come on Eileen, Build Me Up Buttercup, Crazy in Love, Hey Ya, maybe the odd bit of the Stones etc etc.
I've been to weddings where people have played their own stuff (including one where 5 separate Velvet Underground records featured at one time or another). The effect, in my experience, is an empty dancefloor, and a wedding will always be worse for an empty dancefloor.
So my vote is to loosen up your usual quality control, cut some rug and make sure that at midnight you're pogoing up and down with your arm around the bride's dad screaming the chorus of Livin on a Prayer.
You can always take a long shower and listen to some Cocteau Twins the next day if it helps.
A wedding with five Velvet Underground songs?
Dear lord, that's amazing. Are they still married?
I can say I was once in a pub (not a goth type bar, an actual pub) which was playing The Black Angel's Death Song over the system and it wasn't even closing time. People were blinking in bewilderment.
It could have been worse...
the DJ could have chosen five Lou Reed songs.
"This one will take you way back to 1975... so many memories... this is one for the ladies out there, a little bit of Metal Machine Music."
At our wedding,
we entered the Church to a string quartet version of VU's 'I'll Be Your Mirror'...
You should play
the absolute classic Earth, Wind & Fire song In The Stone!
Fantastic all the way, but especially the euphoria that sets in after ca 2:50 when they start singing;
"Never, never my darling, never you'll be alone
Ever, forever my darling, true love is written in the stone..."
Not the finest english perhaps, but sentiment, brass to die for and melody combined do lift everyones spirits like very few other songs; AND you can dance to it!
Other good songs:
Dancing In The Moonlight - Thin Lizzy
Ring My Bell - Anita Ward
Twenty-five Miles - Edwin Starr
Long Train Running - The Doobie Brothers
Lola's Theme - Shapeshifters
If it was my wedding I would go 100% funk, but I guess that's a bit extreme. But a couple of tracks to slip in for the real dance fanatics could be;
Cineramascope from Galactic's new CD, and if you want to see a dancefloor full of people imitating hens with heads bobbing, arms flapping, clucking etc, then please play Chicken Strut by The Meters!
Have a great party!
This is we programmed our own wedding last year:
Entrance Song:
I'll Be Your Mirror (string quartet version of the Velvet Underground song)
Signing the register songs:
Until Death Do Them Part - Paul Kelly
My Soul Sings - Delirious?
Exit song:
William Tell Overture
Reception entrance song:
One Day Like This - Elbow
First dance song:
The Magic Position - Patrick Wolf
Dancing songs:
Lets Stay Together - Al Green
All I Want Is You - Barry Louis Polisar
You Really Got Me - The Kinks
Blue Suede Shoes - Elvis Presley
Hotel Yorba - The White Stripes
Dancing In The Street - David Bowie & Mick Jagger
I Don't Feel Like Dancing - Scissor Sisters
Dancing Machine - Jackson 5
Dancing Choose - TV On The Radio
Crazy In Love - Beyonce Feat. Jay-Z
I Like It I Love It - Lyrics Born
That's The Way I Like It - K.C. & The Sunshine Band
Lady Madonna - The Beatles
You Never Can Tell - Chuck Berry
Dancing Queen - Abba
Jump Around - House Of Pain
Reach - S Club 7
No Sex for Ben - The Rapture
Groove Is In The Heart - Deee-Lite
All Night Disco Party - Brakes
Darts Of Pleasure - Franz Ferdinand
Mr Brightside - The Killers
A Stroke Of Genie-Us - The Strokes vs Christina Aguilera
Airbag - Radiohead cover by Easy All Stars
Live It Up - Mental As Anything
Common People - Pulp
Don't Stop Me Now - Queen
Birdhouse In Your Soul - They Might Be Giants
Blister In The Sun - The Violent Femmes
Chelsea Dagger - Fratellis
Mrs Robinson - Simon & Garfunkel cover by The Lemonheads
Poison - Alice Cooper
Everyone Says You're So Fragile - Idlewild
Music Is My Hot Sex - CSS
Superstition - Stevie Wonder
Banquet - Bloc Party
Hey Ya! - Outkast
Call Me - Blondie
Hounds Of Love - Kate Bush cover by The Futureheads
Standing In The Way Of Control - Gossip
I Bet that You Look Good On The Dancefloor - Arctic Monkeys
Let's Dance To Joy Division - Wombats
Can't Get Blue Monday Out Of My Head - New Order vs Kylie
Smack Me Baby One More Time - Britney Spears vs Prodigy
Brimful Of Asha (Norman Cook remix) - Cornershop
Down Under - Men At Work
It Must Be Love - Madness
Hi Ho Silver Lining - Jeff Beck
Son Of A Preacher Man - Dusty Springfield
God Only Knows - The Beach Boys
Most Beautiful Girl (In The Room) - Flight Of The Conchords
Lucky Man - The Verve
So Long, Farewell - from The Sound Of Music soundtrack
I Walk The Line - Johnny Cash
No Cars Go (reprise) - Arcade Fire
This is what i'd play
This is what i'd play.......
20th Century Boy - T Rex
Fashion - David Bowie
I'm A Man - Spencer Davis Group
Loose Fit - Happy Mondays
Rock The Casbah - The Clash
Uptown Top Ranking - Althea & Donna
Aint Nobody - Chaka Khan
Groove Is In The Heart - Deee Lite
Superstition - Stevie Wonder
Could You Be Loved - Bob Marley
Pull Up To The Bumper - Grace Jones
1999 - Prince
Fairly bulletproof I think!
A good rule of thumb
is to only play songs that have been number 1, spread out over the decades.
My list:
Rosemary Clooney Mambo Italiano
Jerry Lee Lewis Great Balls Of Fire
Elvis Presley All Shook Up
Cliff Richard & The Shadows The Young Ones
The Beatles She Loves You
Roy Orbison Oh Pretty Woman
The Byrds Mr Tambourine Man
Smokey Robinson & The Miracles Tears Of A Clown
Mud Tiger Feet
Abba Waterloo
Slade Cum On Feel The Noize
Steve Harley & Cockney Rebel Make Me Smile (Come Up And See Me)
Abba Mamma Mia
Elton John & Kiki Dee Don't Go Breaking My Heart
The Bee Gees Night Fever
Irene Cara Fame
Wham! I'm Your Man
The Timelords Doctorin' The Tardis
Cher The Shoop Shoop Song (It's In His Kiss)
Doop Doop
Hanson Mmm Bop
S Club 7 Don't Stop Movin'
Kylie Minogue Can't Get You Out Of My Head
Eric Prydz Call On Me
Arctic Monkeys I Bet You Look Good On The Dancefloor
Sugababes Push The Button
Katy Perry I Kissed A Girl
Ting Tings That's Not My Name
La Roux Bulletproof
Lady Gaga Bad Romance
Basshunter Now You're Gone