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Do your kids listen to your music?

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All my kids LOVE the Beatles, and have done all their lives (oldest now 21, youngest 15)

NONE of them are interested in ELP.

It's interesting observing what they respond to.

My daughters both love Bonnie Raitt, but don't respond to Joni Mitchell.

My son had a brief period of G'nR, ACDC, couldn't interest him in Zep.

On the other hand, my oldest daughter just LOVES Leon Russell!

Given that I grew up with the dreaded phrase "generation gap" as an explanation for everything, I love the fact that it doesn't seem to exist any more as far as music goes.

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Younger children

I've got four, aged 8, 7, 5 and 3.

Big hits? The Proclaimers. "Sandra's Having Her Brain Out" by The Soft Boys. Tom T Hall (but not his songs for children, for some reason). Buffy Saint Marie. Tom Russell - "Tonight We Ride" has multifarious opportunities to yodel along - what more could you want? "It's A Long Way To The Top" - but this may have more to do with Jack Black than ACDC. Del Amitri's version of "Ace of Spades" goes down well too. Current favourite amongst them all is Justin Townes Earle's "Harlem River Blues" (the song, not the whole album). I think it's words that can be heard and sung along to they like a lot.

Things which I just can't them to appreciate: Springsteen. Ian McNabb. Steve Earle.

Unfortunately, I caught 5 year old singing Bananarama's "It Ain't What You Do"; time for some intensive Dwight Yoakham, I think.

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sootymangabey | 11 February 2011 - 8:23am

Thumbs up

for Harlem River Blues from my 9 year old son also!

(Though his Mum is not altogether convinced he should be singing about going uptown to drown)

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Ghost | 11 February 2011 - 4:09pm

Tonight we ride

Brilliant song, brilliant artist.
Don't think my 11 daughter would like it but she loves Nina Simone and Ray Charles especially Hit the road Jack.
She also likes Imagine and Bjorks Oh so quiet and Earth Intruders.

My son (21) has a pretty decent taste in music these days. We agree on much but i cannot understand his penchant for Muse who I think are overblown.

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Steve Turner | 17 February 2011 - 8:56am

Tonight we ride

Brilliant song, brilliant artist.
Don't think my 11 year old daughter would like it but she loves Nina Simone and Ray Charles especially Hit the road Jack.
She also likes Imagine and Bjorks Oh so quiet and Earth Intruders.

My son (21) has a pretty decent taste in music these days. We agree on much but i cannot understand his penchant for Muse who I think are overblown.

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Steve Turner | 17 February 2011 - 8:59am

this is because

modern music is rubbish

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James Blast | 11 February 2011 - 9:15am

Bring Back the Generation Gap

When I was a younger I wanted to be different from my parents, my music was a badge of my difference. That was why The Beatles, Pink Floyd, The Pistols, Happy Mondays, etc meant something special to young people at the time. Now everyone has an agreed notion of what is good. It makes me want to stick my old Crass records on. I'm looking forward to the day when my offspring play stuff which forces me to say, "What is that bloody racket?"

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BigJimBob | 11 February 2011 - 9:20am

This was something I was conscious of,

and wanted my own to find their own way into music.

I've always got something playing so they are bound to hear my tastes, but I always encouraged them to play whatever they wanted hear, rather than presenting them with the gospel according to P.

That means the son (16) likes the Velvets, Joy Division, the Pixies, Smiths, Sex Pistols and the like, along with plenty of new where I get to say 'what is that bloody racket?'

Apart from a brief Motorhead phase, the daughter (11) is not so keen on the noise and the last record she bought was a Kate Nashalike LP I can't remember the name of.

Both their favourite song is Another Girl Another Planet.

They both take what they like from my shelves and ignore the rest, which is fine by me, though I agree it seems a shame they can't piss their parents off with a God Save the Queen.

Not sure Crass is the answer though, James. Came home from the other week to hear Feeding coming from the front room - the son had read a feature about them in the magazine that dare not speak its name and they appealed to his latest persona of student protester. Can't wait till he moves onto Yes Sir, I Will.

One last thing, the speed with which they get through stuff is incredible, simply because it's all so easily available either in the house or on the net.

My son 'did' the complete works of the Velvet Underground in about a fortnight. It took me a couple of years when I was a sixth former, simply because I had to save up to buy it all.

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IanP | 11 February 2011 - 11:14am

eh?

that'll be Big Jim not me Ian

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James Blast | 11 February 2011 - 4:10pm

My deepest apologies James,

I blame sleep derivation and work stress.
Thanks again, you're a top man

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IanP | 11 February 2011 - 9:00pm

Always got to be moving on

It's great when there's stuff which crosses the generations - I loved my dad's jazz records. However, I also like a quote from Nick Hornby some years ago along the lines of not being able to get into acid house (I think?) but that it was about time there was some new music which he didn't "get".

Also remember discussing music sometime in the 90's with a 40-something Word-type as he bemoaned the sort of anodyne music youngsters were listening to, whereas he'd been into punk/New Wave/Clash at their age. He pulled a Daily Mail face and shut up when I asked if he'd heard any Gangsta Rap.

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millymollymandy | 11 February 2011 - 11:15am

Nope

Even my wife won't listen to my music.

Eldest daughter does like Sigur Ros though. Which is nice.

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Neil Jung | 11 February 2011 - 9:49am

Yes

2.5 yr old and 11 month old. Both of them LOVE Get In The Swing by Sparks. The eldest one has her own Beatles compilation (ObLaDi, Submarine, I'm only sleeping, Hello Goodbye, etc) which she loves. She is also mad for the new ElvisC record (the apple doesn't fall far from the tree) in particular the track I Lost You which we have had to play on a loop on nursery runs.

A big heads up for this record too: Tom Gray from Gomez has done this kids record for a show based on the book Penguin. It's excellent and much loved in our house.
http://open.spotify.com/album/3kzTeHt5WisqvXj03mK5Qx

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DrJ | 11 February 2011 - 10:20am

The oh-so-cool g-ette

couldn't give a toss about bands or pop stars but she loves some of the records they make. She seems to be a major fan of two bluebottles bashing against the sides of her headphones in four four time.

Or at least it sounds like two bluebottles.

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eddie g | 11 February 2011 - 10:39am

My proudest moment

Was when a previously unheard (oh but why?) solo track by Mick Jagger popped up on the iPod and my then three year old son said "Is this the man who can't get what he wants?". About a month later I played Kirsty MacColl's version of "Days" and the little G burst into tears "because something's happened to the song". Not a big one for cover versions then...

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katyg | 11 February 2011 - 10:59am

My 2 saucepan lids

2 boys, 16 + 14 respectively, ddon't want anything to do with what I listen to.

They're currently on a strict, self imposed diet of "RnB" awfulness.

Vive la difference.

But - I do derive a small spark of satisfaction in my black, black heart when I hear them playing some god awful cover version, and I'm able to pop the vinyl off the shelf and play the original that they never knew existed.

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BonzoDog | 11 February 2011 - 11:22am

Yes - a good thing!

Have 2 boys of 6 and 4, and they have both been "subjected" to my music from a young age. They both have their own itunes playlists, which they insist on having on at mealtimes. Not a problem for me as most of it is from my collection. Their mum is not always so keen...

[In fact when I bought Plan B last year she said "I can see why you like this" and I felt quite good until she said "because it sounds like everything else you play."]

Like katyg, I had a proud moment the first time the eldest identified the Beatles (although he has since said that about a couple of other bands..) and John Lennon as "the man from the Beatles who is dead."

Dreading the time when they bring their "own" music back...

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CJW | 11 February 2011 - 1:30pm

Death throes of Rock

Saw half an hour of a hideous Disney-esque film from 2009 called 'Band Slam' yesterday

In it clean cut post-High School Musical teens 'form a band' and enter the local titular competition to win a record contract. All of the characters talk about 'Tom Petty' 'CBGBs' and other assorted rock stalwarts as being icons of cool - it just sounds weird- these are 'Grandads'. The lead character takes it a step further by carrying on an imagined conversation with 'David BoughWee'.

It just all feels wrong and cringe-making. The 'Industry' got excited with the notion of peddling catalogue and 'rock heritage'. The craze for band logo'd 'classic rock' t-shirts will fade. This week it was announced that no further Guitar Hero titles will be produced and so another line of catalogue income goes.

Music has shown it can light the teenage and 'young' existence - become core to their lives and lay foundations for the future. It is only going to be that real and longstanding if there is a bond of ownership. The way it is currently going - the younger generation will like any of this music but they won't care in the same way.

Music is just no longer such a core part of growing up

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tim tunes | 11 February 2011 - 1:37pm

My 16 year old boy, and 8 year ol girl

both love The Beatles. James is also into The Kinks, The Who, The Jam, The Smith (you get the picture), any good pop/rock as well as a lot of his own stuff like King Blues, Arctic Monkeys, Mumford & Sons. Through the latter I have got him into Show Of Hands. The only thing he won't go near is Prog Rock. Yes, Pink Floyd (later stuff) etc as he can't get his head round any track lasting more than 5 minutes. I ocassionally put something 'new' on his iPod and get him to listen and he's usually pretty up on it put picky for instance, he likes a bit of Led Zep but is not into extended guitar solos. I'll gibe him a B+ but could do better!

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Axekeith | 11 February 2011 - 2:22pm

"More Boss!"

We had some friends round last week and I played Darkness on the Edge of Town to prove some point or another. Their two year old asked who was singing ("Who da'?" may have been the actual phrasing). To keep things simple his father said "It's The Boss". The album finished and little Noah turned to us both. "More Boss!" he said.

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skirky | 11 February 2011 - 8:40pm

Stop your messing around.

Eldest (6) recognised that the song on the ad (A Message To You Rudy) was the same as the one in the car. Interestingly the ad is the Specials and it's Dandy in the car.

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pompeygeorge | 11 February 2011 - 9:02pm

The other way round

I popped some The Pink Floyd on in the car a week or two ago and The Mum (90 in May this year) said "Oh, that's him I like". I said "Them Mum, them" and she said "oh that's right, they're one of yours* is it The Pink Floyd"?
I beamed so hard I had to turn the car heater off.

*she remembers bands from my teens like Alice Cooper, Mott the Hoople and Genesis up to The Sisters Of Mercy in my late 20s, bless

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James Blast | 11 February 2011 - 11:55pm

I spent many fruitless years

trying to get my parents to listen to my music - that need for approval I guess.

"But listen to this - it's Bach/Janacek or whatever Emerson was destroying...

Now in a weird ironic twist I write and produce songs for under-fives, and my Mum (86) LOVES them!

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Mousey | 12 February 2011 - 12:23am

My three year old daughter

dances with me to lots of different music - the other day it was 'Wicked Act' by Black Uhuru. On the other hand, she will often ask me what that noise is coming out of my speakers. In this respect she takes after her mother.

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sourdust | 17 February 2011 - 2:47am

Two girls, 3 and 4.

They adore The Beatles - Charlotte loves Paul, Emily loves George because of Taxman, which is her favourite song. They also really like Battles, as I've mentioned before. Weird playful math-rock is a winner with the under 5s, it seems. I've tried The Hold Steady but they don't like the shouty songs.

So it's all Sgt Pepper, Revolver and bits of Rubber Soul for them. Hearing them go "beep beep, beep beep YEAH!" or talking to each other about which song is on in the car ("this one is She's Leaving Home, Emily") makes me disproportionately proud.

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Bob | 17 February 2011 - 8:21am

I know what you mean

The 2 year old has to sing Ob-la-di before bed now, and this morning in the car asked for ""the 64 song"

My work is done.

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DrJ | 17 February 2011 - 1:51pm
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